Hard times keep us together

The recession that stripped many Americans of their financial security may also have saved a few marriages. According to a study by the National Marriage Project at the University of Virginia, 38% of married couples considering a divorce or separation before the economic crisis put it off because of the recession. The study, which focused on the recession's impact on the quality and stability of marriage in the United States, found that 29% of 1,197 married Americans surveyed said that the recession has deepened their commitment to their marriage. Another 58% said that the recession has had no effect on their marriage, and 13% said that it hasn't deepened their commitment. The couples were surveyed and interviewed in December and January. The report also found that married Americans who report low levels of financial concern are the most likely to report having a very happy marriage. The group, which sponsors an annual National Marriage Week over the seven days leading up to St. Valentine's Day, said that marriage breakdown costs taxpayers at least $112 billion a year. That total includes the cost of divorce and unwed childbearing. “Marriage pays,” said National Marriage Week USA executive director Sheila Weber. “Research shows that marriage makes people happier, live longer and build more economic security.” In tribute to Valentine's Day, the National Marriage Project is offering a discounted Couples' Checkup. After both parties complete an online quiz, the checkup produces a report that assesses the couple's relationship. It can be found at couplecheckup.com/nationalmarriage week.html. And in case anyone forgot to order flowers, the group also offers online guidance for writing a love letter.